Saturday, October 6, 2018

When Manmarziyan (what your heart wants) is really "Husband Material"

By this point, Manmarziyaan had been watched and reviewed by just about everyone and there's not much I can add. It's really a tale as old as time - woman loves man-child but gets married to "real-man"; "real-man" promises to return woman to man-child; woman chooses husband "real-man" over ex-boyfriend man-child; they love happily ever after. 

This is not a review of the movie. *Spoilers ahead*.

This "refreshing new take" is a pleasant enough watch with Tapsee Pannu lighting up the screen with a magnetism that is only amplified by Amit Trivedi's equally riveting music. Sure, she's a pampered brat who believes she's a rebel, and who leaves you wondering what she's actually rebelling against. But you stay engaged, indulging her antics the way you stood by and watched your self-destructive best friend get shitfaced repeatedly and make an ass of themselves. You know, that what you think won't matter anyway.

And so right on cue, she's "caught" having sex with her boyfriend. This is where things are "refreshed" - There's no haye-tauba or khandaan-ki-izzat ka rona dhona. In fact, no one bats an eye at the premarital sex.

Sadly, it's also where the fresh take ends.

When her family insists they get married, she agrees. I still don't know why. The rest, as they say, is history.

As expected, Bollywood's understanding of feminism and "modernity" starts and ends at the most superficial of levels - wardrobe choices, imbibing alcohol and/or nicotine, being outspoken and a very limited degree of sexual liberty. And that is where Manmarziyaan also disappointed me the most.
At no point is Rumi given any hopes, dreams, aspirations, accomplishments beyond the men in her life. All said and done, the protagonist, all fire and brimstone on the surface, basically wants a man to take care of her and fend for her. She readily agrees with her family that marry she must. Not once does she consider a possibility of first being self-sufficient, not just financially but also emotionally. For that matter, even we the audience are expected to accept that marriage is her only viable option. She literally had nothing else going on with her.

That she, herself, has equally bought in to this patriarchal construct of being cared for, is demonstrable when she's upset that her man-child boyfriend can't even plan an elopement for both of them. Never once does she (or the audience) consider the possibility that it could just be okay for her to take charge and fend for the both of them.

Equally reprehensible, is how Bollywood treats characters that do dare to dream "selfish" individualist dreams. Vicky is a musician and a DJ. For all the disdain hurled at him, he is, ironically, the only character shown actually spending any time at work. Thus, when pitted against the soft-spoken NRI banker (who seems to have limitless vacation time), clearly being a struggling artist is not good enough. Even if this NRI seems overeager to marry a complete stranger after one look at her photograph. Nope, nothing suspicious about that either. It's as if all those NRI wedding scams in Punjab never really happened, you know.

Add to that, the villanizing of Vicky for not wanting to be married. The fact that he's still committed to a monogamous relationship holds no bearing. He's deemed selfish, even though he never moves so much as a finger without his girlfriend's say so.

But then characters who have wanted to do their own thing have always been schooled and affectionately brought back into the fold in Bollywood. Whether it's Ranbir's "Bunty" in Yeh Jawani Hai Deewani, Saif's "Jai" in Love Aaj Kal, Deepika's "Aaliya" in Break ke Baad or Kajol's "Anjali" in Kucch Kuch Hota Hai. The list is endless, the message consistent - If you dare to dream something just for yourself, you will regret it. Collectivism will always win over individualism. #becausefamily. We're never allowed to question why the very same family can't be supportive and happy for their loved ones living the life they always wanted.

Finally, when you've tolerated all the back and forth of this completely unnecessary love triangle, you can bet your bottom dollar, that sanskar will win the day. This fierce, "modern" heroine will, after all, choose to walk into the sunset with the husband her family picked out.. even though he dampens her spirit and shushes her mid-sentence, interrupting her only to tell her that she can always speak freely with him. 

And so you walk out of the theater, realizing that this was no fresh perspective, just old wine in a new bottle. And that we're celebrating the fallacy that what the heart really wants is "husband material".

Sunday, February 8, 2015

Sha Sha Sha… Mi Mi Mi.. What a chance !

The moment I saw the theatrical trailer of Shamitabh I was licking my lips and was eagerly waiting for this movie to come out. The combination of Mr. Done it all, Amitabh Bachhan, and an impressive new comer to hindi films, Dhanush, with Balki at the helm to direct them seemed all too good to lose out on. Add an interesting plot to the mix and I thought we had a winner on our hands. But 30 minutes into the movie and I realized that the plot line was paper thin and too much was left up to the brilliance of the 2 main leads of the movie. The climax was unconventional albeit predictable. In the end I was left with a feeling similar to the one of an unsuccessful Indian cricket defense in an ODI and saying “What if they could have done this… Only if they would have done that..”

Shamitabh almost seems like a movie born out of a conversation at a party etc. The idea is brilliant and very innovative, just like all the other Balki movies. In a nutshell Shamitabh is about an aspiring mute actor Danish, who needs Amitabh’s voice to realize his dream. Together they become the superstar Shamitabh by combining their names. But beyond the core idea and some witty dialogs in between the movie fails to deliver content wise. Even the character back stories are borrowed from real life stories. There are pockets of brilliance in the movie where you get hooked on for say about 15 minutes but then the next 15 minutes seemed like a drag and I heard myself saying, “Kya paka rage hair”.  Thankfully the songs did not interrupt the flow to add to my woes and provided somewhat of a background score for most parts. “Only if” the editing would have been a bit tighter. The end credits were one of the coolest parts for me and a very nice way of paying a tribute without explicitly saying out loud. Also I felt there was a subtle attempt to celebrate Amitabh Bachhan’s voice.

With all the issues in the content of Shamitabh, the performances by Bachhan and Dhanush are simply superlative. Amitabh Bachhan proves once again that no one and I mean absolutely no one can match him for the drunk scenes. The way this man is defying his age and is carrying on is simply amazing. Dhanush stands up toe to toe with his senior counterpart, proving Ranjhana was no fluke and displays an array of emotions. Akshara Hassan is clearly the loose end in the acting department of this movie. A fellow viewer in the theatre summed it up for me when he said “kahan se laaye hai yaar isko?” (Where have they got her from?). She looked like a teenager who lacks the charisma and skill and just fails to stand up even half as tall as her co stars. 

Music by Illayaraja is pleasant on the ears but lyrics don’t really help the cause. In the end ‘Pidly si baatein’ is the only song that stuck with me. Extra points to Amitabh Bachhan for his vocals. There are no two opinions about Balki’s talent as a story teller. I felt there was just too little content here to make a full feature film. This could have been a great addition to one of the 'Bombay Talkies' short films. 


I would not say its a horrible movie, but its definitely DVD/ satellite TV material for me. An opportunity missed for sure. For the 2 bright star actors of the movie I would rate it 6.25 on 10.

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Tuesday, September 23, 2014

The 'Cocktail' of sexism and Bollywood

In the recent past, there's been a lot of talk about the portrayal of women in Bollywood films. It is a world rife wtih contradictions and while huge strides have been made in changing how women are represented in the world's largest movie-making industry, a lot still needs to change. The current times are an optimistic indicator that this change may not be far behind. Yet something in me isn't quite ready to be a believer just yet.

The recent success of films like Queen, Mardaani and Mary Kom have proved that the box office numbers can be favourable for movies with female main leads supported by a non-A-lister cast. That is truly great news. That women-centric films can make money goes a long way in popularizing the development and production of more films with mainstream actresses playing central women protagonists. A lot of credit for this change goes to the current generation of actresses who are now proactively pushing the boundaries of the roles they play. Most notably we have veterans like Sridevi (English-Vinglish) and Madhuri Dixit (Aaja Nachle, Gulaabi Gang) from the older generation joined by Viday Balan (The Dirty Picture, Kahaani), Priyanka Chora (7 Khoon Maaf, Barfi, Mary Kom), Kangna Ranaut (Queen, Revolver Rani) and Deepika Padukone (Cocktail, Finding Fanny). The more I think about these actresses and the roles they're playing, the more I find myself scratching deeper below the surface to see if this new found feminism is anything more than skin-deep,

And so it is that I always come back to thinking about a movie that came out two years ago, arguably one of the most flawed early attempts at depicting a strong female character in a Hindi movie in recent time - Cocktail. 

Released mid-year in 2012, the film came out within a few months of that's year's most successful woman-centric venture, a truly ground breaking film, Kahaani. Everyone cheered at the coming-of-age of Bollywood where intelligent, independent women characters were making their way to the forefront. The celebrations were short-lived. Till today, Cocktail remains a strongly polarizing movie touting the feminist agenda. No discussion of Bollywood's sexism or feminism can escape the mention of Cocktail. This makes me want to analyse the film in more detail and share what I think of it.

In my opinion the movie is deeply flawed. While I believe the intentions of the filmmakers may have been noble and that they may truly have believed they were making a film about a strong woman, prejudicies and sub-consciouss biases run deep in the human psyche and no film has ever epitomised that better than Cocktail. Let me explain why.

(If you haven't seen the movie yet, please be aware that the rest of this post will be liberally sprinkled with spoilers so proceed at your own risk.)

Let's start with the three central characters and their descriptions as they appear on the surface. 

The main protagnist, albeit probably unwittingly so, is Veronica (Deepika Padukone) a spoilt little rich kid, neglected by her always-away-for-business father. Veronica is the "Wild Girl"; with a preference for skimpy clothes she loves to party hard, drink a lot and is openly sexual, even possibly promiscuous. She doesn't do her daily pooja or her laundry, doesn't clean up her apartment and essentially lives the carefree life of a teenager in a grown woman's body. From the very beginning she sounds like terrible cliche but we're told to believe that she is a "modern" woman, unapologetic about her vices and so we should love her. (I do love her but not for the reasons the director/writer want us to... more on that later).

Veronica meets Meera (Diana Penty), her polar opposite. Meera is the "Good Girl" who doesn't drink or party, keeps a clean house and religiously says her morning prayers every single day. She's the virgin, the pure hearted Yash Raj heroine, always dressed in pastels and with a sweetness that would put a child to shame. More cliches, you're thinking. I agree. With one small caveat - when Meera finds herself lost and abandoned in a foreign land she is rescued not by the hero of the film but rather by Veronica, the wild child with no apparent sense of responsibility. This is the first interesting thing in the movie so far.

Which brings us to - the Hero. Gautam (Saif Ali Khan) doesn't really have much of a character description here. He's basically nothing more than "the Prize". A supposedly charming  good-looker with a propensity for picking up beautiful, young, "easy" women and whose interests align with Veronica when it comes to letting loose and having a good time. Personally I found him less charming and more smarmy with a dash of sleazy but hey, one girl's reprobate is another girl's rake. So I try not to judge.

Somewhere along the way the three of them become friends and Veronica and Gautam hook-up and then Gautam falls in love with Meera while Veronica falls in love with Gautam... yada yada yada. We all know how the story goes. The Good Girl gets the Prize and the Wild Girl gets to introspect on her life's choices. 

Almost all the detractors obviously have a problem with the end. Their arguments have made the rounds time and time again and I see no merit in repeating them here. In my opinion the end is not the worst thing about the movie. In fact I'm maybe even a little relieved that Veronica doesn't end up with a jerk like Gautam. My problems with this film run far deeper.

For starters, I quesiton the basic premise of the characters. Time and again, we're shown that Veronica is the capricious one, immature, fickle and unreliable. You see, she drinks and swears like a sailor and dresses like a whore. What's worse, she's unapologetic about all of it. In comparison, Meera is the righteous, dependable, conscientious one. The foil. She's everything pure and wholesome, responsible, mature.

I disagree. 

Meera, for all her honest-to-god goodness, is the fool who marries a complete stranger from a foreign land and pays him a dowry for it too. And then when he leaves her behind, armed with nothing more than his address, she follows him to a foreign land, manages to lose all her money and passport and finds herself homeless and penniless within the first 24 hours. What a wuss!

Veronica, on the other hand, in spite of having access to a life of luxury, chooses to live on her own and have a career as a photographer. No doubt her income is supplemented by Daddy Moneybags but she doesn't drift through a life of idle affluence. She steps away from it all and does her own thing. Her apartment may be a mess but it's her mess and she prefers that to a posse of servants and a spotless house which she could very well afford. Add to that, when she meets Meera, the epitome of everything she deplores, the sweet lost naive fool who can't fend for herself, instead of dismissing her she takes her under her wing and bolsters her up. Veronica is strong and cynical and more than a little lonely but she has a soft empathetic heart.

Further when Veronica and Gautum hook up, he's obnoxious to Meera, constantly mocking her goodness and comely habits. Veronica plays a buffer between the two. She understands and respects both their life choices, a courtesy neither of the characters award her in return. 

For when his mother shows up at the door, Gautam's hypocrisy and double standards rear their ugly head. How can he possibly introduce a girl like Veronica to his mother? So he pushes Meera ahead and lies through his teeth. And believe it or not, every character in that movie, including Meera and Veronica, understand why he does so.

To me that single scene is what is terrible about this movie. 

What's worse is that we as an audience, along with the charatcters in the movie, completely understand and empathize with Gautam at that moment. And we go along with this idea that a girl who was stupid enough to fall for the age-old marriage-to-an-NRI scam is more acceptable than the girl who can take care of herself and of another... simply based on their outward appearance. A fully clothed fool is preferred to a skimpily clothed firebrand.  

What happens next is tragic but predictable. The wild child must change her core being to win the trophy, a man who is shallow and selfish. A man with no spine or moral compass. And she will still fail. 

Going back to the beginng, I'm not sure Veronica ever needed to be unapologetic about her so called vices because I'm not sure she had any. I don't see what's wrong with dressing the way she does or drinking and partying the way she does as long as she takes care of herself and does it on her own dime. We judge her for a messy apartment because she would rather go out and have a good time than clean up her home and yet how many among us have not been guilty of that at some point or another? We judge her because she understands her sexual needs and caters to them. It outrages our sense of modesty and morality when in reality we can't think of one good reason why she shouldn't. There's no doubt that Veronica is deeply hurting, suffering from an emotional void left by a childhood of neglect. She's searching for companionship, possibly even love. She comes so close to finding that fulfilment within her friend, Meera and her lover, Gautam only to find out that deep within they judge her too. They leech off her for emotional and sexual fulfiment respectively but when the spotlight is turned on they shy away from standing by her. They're embarassed of being associated with her. That is the real flaw in the film.

I'm glad Meera and Gautam end up together in the end. I would like to believe Veronica can do better than either of them. What I'm most glad about is that she comes to the realization that changing herself to fit the ideals of Meera, Gautam and us, the audience, isn't going to get her any closer to redemeption. And when the movie ends with her standing on the side, looking at Meera and Gautam locked in a romantic embrace, I like to believe that she's comfortable not being anyone other than herself and she's happy to wait for someone who will love her, just the way she is.

Since Cocktail there have been other movies that are less judgemental of their strong modern women protagonists. Some even celebrated the sexual liberation of the Indian woman. But there have also been others (Ishaqzaade, for example) that gave their fiery women characters a similar fate as Veronica. It's not really fair to say we're not changing our biases at all but the change is slow and often its soft treads are drowned by the roar of the sexist juggernauts of pot boilers and "masala" films. Films like Cocktail are important because they spark debate on modernity and liberation and equality, about feminism in the movies and about our deep-seated underlying sub-conscious prejudices. 

There's much to be done but we're on our way there. For now, that's all we have to celebrate. 

Cheers!